Tuesday, March 13, 2012

compliments are good....

I put no faith in Grindr. It sounds like it works really well for those guys who want a hook-up, which is its intended purpose. I for some reason held out hope of meeting a guy to become friends with and a relationship possible later, foolish I know, but I can have dreams right??haha. Anyway I log on once a day to see if there is anyone new close by, usually isn't. Last Thursday I got a message from this kid around 7:30am, but I didn't get it until around 1pm on my lunch. I was in a hurry and then after work my friend B came up to stay the weekend so I didn't get around to responding until about 10pm. I made a joke about it taking so long for me to respond. His picture was of himself sitting with his arm and head resting on his knees looking down. I usually don't resound to people with out face pics, not to mention his stats said that he was 7'11 and 438lbs. I figured he left the settings at default, and if not I would like to see a 7'1 438lb person.
We chatted for a about an hour and I fell asleep talking to him. Next day we talked a little through out the day and again later at night for a while and I fell asleep talking to him again. I found out that he was closeted and english was not his primary language. I told him I was closeted too, but I have a pic on Grindr because if anyone I knew was on Grindr than I wouldn't be the only one of my friends in the closet. He said ok and sent me a face pic. He was a good looking kid and I told him so. Saturday morning he said something to the effect of me not knowing he was good looking because girls call him ugly. I told him that I saw his face pic and he was definitely not ugly.
 The natural response to being told you are better looking than you give yourself credit it to block the person giving you the compliment....must have been the language barrier.
Next
Have you guys heard of warrior dash?? I am doing one in early June and I am not ready at all. First of all I still have some progress to make on my getting in shape goal. My goal is to be down to 200lbs by June. I am currently at 220, so its doable I just need to increase my exercise time by about 100%.haha. Especially if I am supposed to be running a race of sorts in a couple months. I am worried that I won't be able to finish the race as I currently don't run very much at all. Have any of you guys run a warrior dash?? Or anything similar??
 I guess thats all for tonight,I hope to post again within the next few days. Have a good one.